Zou Jingjing The Wuhan Girl
Age: 25 (horse)
Birthday: 13/11/1990
Constellation: Scorpio
Height :: 170
Weight 46 KG
Measurements: B90 W61 H90
Born: Wuhan China
Occupation: Model, Cars
Hobbies: yoga, swimming, horse riding,
How To Get A Chinese Girlfriend: A Basic Guide
So you want to make that Chinese girl your girlfriend. But you donât know whatâs the first thing you should do. Donât worry, this article would give you a whole idea on what you can do to get that girlâs heart and make her your Chinese girlfriend.
This article doesnât generalize the whole Chinese women population. Every girl has their own principles and values. This article only gives you a general idea of what you could do to capture that Chinese girlâs heart.
Be friends first, then ask her out on a date
If youâre thinking that you could ask a Chinese girl out for a date or even give you her phone number right when youâre basically strangers, then thereâs a 98% chance youâd get rejected. Chinese girls prefer to make friends with guys first and get to know you before even considering the idea of going on a date with you.
A Chinese girl sitting on a bench with her male friend
Consider being a good friend to her first. Get to know her and let her get to know you. Hang out together along with your mutual friends. Once you timing is right, ask her for a date.
The best relationships start with friendsh ips, right? So why not give this one a try.
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Show your manners
Letâs get this straight. No one wants to date someone whoâs rude, apathetic, boastful and a bully. This doesnât just turn women off, it also gives people the impression that youâre ill-mannered and not a good person to hang around with.
Instead, be respectful to her, her family, and to the Chinese culture. Also be well-mannered and have proper etiquette.
Lastly, donât just do this because you want to have a Chinese girlfriend. Do this so you could make yourself to be a better person.
Learn some Chinese, or atleast correctly pronounce her name
If you donât speak any Chinese dialect at all, youâll be glad to know that itâs normal for Chinese people to speak the English language. According to this source, most school children are taugh English lessons at a young age.
But even though you can both speak a mutual language doesnât mean that you wonât acknowledge hers.
Take this effort to bring you closer than ever. Learn a few Chinese phrases like ä˝ ĺžćźäşŽă (NÇ hÄn piĂ o liang) which means âYou are beautifulâ or ä˝ ççźçĺžçžă(nÇ de yÇn jing hÄn mÄi) which means âYour eyes are beautiful.â
Make the effort to correctly pronounce phrases, especially her name along with the accent. Youâd be surprised at how surprised your Chinese girlfriendâs going to be that youâd make the effort.
Focus on her and not on your computer/phone
Donât be the kind of guy who always spends his time playing computer games with his friends and just leaves his girlfriend alone. Itâs perfectly normal to play computer games, but when youâre in a relationship youâve got to bring it to a minimum so you could spend some time together.
When youâre spending time together, focus on spending time with her and not playing candy crush on your phone.
Though thereâs an exception to this rule. And itâs only if your Chinese girlfriend also loves playing computer games too.
Reply to her messages. Fast!
When youâre actually not spending time together, Chinese girls like to keep in touch with their boyfriends though texts or chats. And if it takes you too long to respond to her messages, sheâll start to worry, and when girls start to worry, anything could happen.
Chinese girl texting her boyfriend
So always keep your phone with you.
Sheâll want to know whatâs currently happening in your life while youâre not together.
Expect cultural differences
If youâre a foreigner, you can surely expect that your culture is a lot more different from the culture that you grew up in. The key is to learn how to compromise and to be understanding. Get to know each other first and learn each othersâ culture.
But if your differences are to the point where you both feel uncomfortable already to the compromising that you have to do, then itâs probably better to stay as friends. Though this depends on your level of commitment.
Fight for what you feel and what you believe in.
The Takeaway
Chinese women are looking for a serious relationship with someone whoâs stable, responsible, respectful, and someone they could connect with.
In a way, starting your relationship by being friends first is a good way to take things slow and get to know each other better. Having good manners not only shows that youâre a decent human being, but youâre also a good person. Learning about her culture is also a plus if youâre willing to date her. When youâre already dating, make sure to be consistent and expect cultural differences.