Nellie Choi
Top Kinky Ideas for a Sexy Relationship
Looking for ways to kink up your love with a few naughty tricks? Hereâs 50 of the sexiest kinky ideas and kinky-er ideas for a sexy relationship.
Lust is fickle.
You could enjoy the best sex of your life this month.
And the very next month, you may find yourself bored with the to and fro motion.
Sex is always exciting and frisky at the start of a new relationship.
But that doesnât mean older relationships donât have the pleasure of passionate sex.
As a matter of fact, older relationships can actually have much better, more fulfilling sex lives.
Just as long as you know what both of you want in bed.
Kinky ideas for sexy relationships
When sex starts to get monotonous over time, all it needs is a little spark to ignite the sexual passion and ecstasy you shared at the beginning. And once you find ways to bring back the excitement into your bedroom, youâll be able to experience the best sex of your lives, no matter how long youâve been in the relationship.
Are you having a hard time getting wet or hard down there? Just try something new, chances are, youâll enjoy it a lot more than you can ever imagine.
Bringing kink into love
Getting kinky in bed can mean different things for different people. What can seem explosive to one couple could seem tame and boring to others.
So we decided to come up with the top 50 kinky ideas for all lovers, be it the new ones or the seasoned professionals of lovemaking.
Still new to the kinky party? Try a few tips from the kinky list.
A kinky veteran? Well, weâre sure there are a lot of tips here that you still havenât tried, you horny bunny! Try it, you may just like something with a twist.
But just a word of caution, while we do suggest you try these kinky ideas with your partner, weâll still have to be a buzzkill and tell you to know the laws of your state before indulging in a few of these rather kinky ideas.
After all, itâs better to be safe than sorry. Weâve all heard that phrase, never do anything that you canât explain to the paramedics or the cops, havenât we?
The best kinky ideas for sexy loving
#1 Grind and grope each other or other people while clubbing.
#2 Have sex with each other while someoneâs watching. Or watch someone else having sex.
#3 Have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed.
#4 Bring food into bed. Nothing beats whipped cream!
#5 Make out on a rooftop or under the stars. Romantic, adventurous and scary!
#6 Role play with each other by dressing in character or as other people in your daily lives. [Read: Role play guide for first timers]
#7 Fantasize about different scenarios and sexual situations. [Read: Tips to talk dirty in bed]
#8 Skinny dip with each other or involve a few friends. [Read: How to skinny dip for the first time]
#9 Give a road head or have sex while travelling or on a road trip. [Read: Road head confessions of a good girl]
#10 Take off on a sexy vacation with another couple or have a sexy drunk double date at home.
#11 Get naughty on the beach with each other. [Read: Sexy fun on the beach for couples]
#12 Make out or have sex in a public place like a restroom or in a dark corner of a club.
#13 Flash in public. [Read: How to flash in public the right way]
#14 Shower together and play with the hand shower or have soapy sex in the bathroom.
#15 Pick up a copy of the kamasutra and try unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.
#16 Get a couplesâ sensual erotic massage with masseurs of the opposite sexes. [Read: Happy ending massage confession]
#17 Make out on someone elseâs bed. Weird, awkward and oh-so-sexy.
#18 Watch porn videos while having sex and turn up the volume for some sexy background music. [Read: How porn saved my sexless marriage]
#19 Make a sex video or take nude photos of each other. [Read: The right way to take nude pictures of your lover]
#20 Have sex with another couple in bed with both of you.
#21 Grope or make out in transportation, be it on a flight, a train or an overnight bus.
#22 Have tantric sex all night long. [Read: The art of tantric sexuality]
#23 Role reversal.
#24 Spanking and nibbling, and a furry cuff can be a great turn on for controlling sex.
#25 Have sex in a changing room when there are very few people around.
#26 Using edible body paint can make eating in bed so much more tasty.
#27 Pretend like youâre sleeping while your partner slips in, turns you on and has sex with you.
#28 The world can get dark with blindfolds, but itâll open up your sexy imaginative mind. [Read: 7 sexiest types of sex]
#29 Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and clean bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think.
#30 Anal sex. If it hurts, use lubes. If it still hurts, try something else.
#31 Finger her under a restaurant table. Just make sure the tableclothâs big enough to cover your indecent act in public.
#32 Have sex with the curtains open and get comfortably close to the window. [Read: Public flashing confessions]
#33 Scratch each other and use your nails. Sometimes, pain can bring more pleasure.
#34 Leave the hotel room door open for the waiter while having sex.
#35 Have resistance sex and pretend like youâre being groped and molested.
#36 Have sex in water, be it a pool or in the ocean.
#37 Bring in a few sex toys to bed.
#38 Play naughty truth and dare and strip poker with friends. [Read: 30 truth or dare questions for a horny night with friends]
#39 Have drunk sex after a wild night of partying.
#40 Imagine having sex with someone else and talk to your partner about it. [Read: How to fantasize about someone else]
10 Kinky-er Kinky ideas
#1 Are you bold enough to try swapping and swinging with other couples? [Read: How to start swinging with your partner]
#2 Ropes and bondage can be awkward for beginners, but theyâre a lot of fun for the seasoned kinky lovers.
#3 Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right places, even pain can be a huge turn on.
#4 Like being the dominatrix? Try playing submissive to the kinkiest of commands with your partner.
#5 Have sex in risky places. [Read: 7 sexiest places to have sex]
#6 Like peeing on each other while having sex? Golden river fantasies were made for you.
#7 Watch your partner having sex with someone else.
#8 Use a double dildo with your man and penetrate him while getting penetrated yourself.
#9 Have a threesome with someone both of you admire or like. [Read: Guide to having a threesome]
#10 Have sex and flaunt yourselves on your webcam to other couples. Just remember to keep your face out of the camera though.
Remember, all of us have our own preferences when it comes to kinky ideas. See what you like and try what you want. Like something bolder or milder, just improvise.